Sharh al-Arba'in al-Nawawiyya by Ibn Uthaymeen (شرح الأربعين النووية) — Page 220

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لَسْنَا فِي حَاجَةٍ إِلَى هَذَا الْإِيلَامِ، بَلْ نَنْتَظِرُ حَتَّى يَخْرُجَ الدَّمُ، وَإِذَا خَرَجَ الدَّمُ انْتَهَى كُلُّ شَيْءٍ.

We have no need for such pain. We wait until blood is drawn, and once that happens, everything is over.

إِذَا أَرَادَ الْإِنْسَانُ أَنْ يُؤَدِّبَ أَهْلَهُ، أَوْ وَلَدَهُ فَلْيُؤَدِّبْ بِإِحْسَانٍ.

If a person wishes to discipline his family or children, he must do so with kindness.

وَلِهَذَا قَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ فِي حَجَّةِ الْوَدَاعِ: «وَلَكُمْ عَلَيْهِنَّ أَنْ لَا يُوطِئْنَ فُرُشَكُمْ أَحَدَاً تَكْرَهُونَهُ، فَإِنْ فَعَلْنَ ذَلِكَ فَاصْرِبُوهُنَّ ضَرْباً غَيْرَ مُبَرِّحٍ».

This is why the Prophet, peace be upon him, said during the Farewell Pilgrimage: 'You have the right that they do not allow anyone you dislike into your home; if they do so, you may strike them, but not severely.'

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Vocabulary · المفردات (17 verbs · 27 nouns)

• اِنْتَظَرَ — to wait
• خَرَجَ — to exit
• اِنْتَهَى — to end
• حَاجَةٌ — need
• إِيلَامٌ — pain
• دَمٌ — blood